Is incest normal???

I am currently watching a series called Billy and Billie, its quite weird as it centers around a step sibling couple. They try their best to show us how in love they are and yet they were raised together when their parents found love.

They were in their preteen years. Well call me old fashioned but i dont think thats normal.  They both call their parents ‘mum and ‘dad’ while they both harboured sexual feeling for each other. That is some weirdo shit. Then i also watched a British show called ‘Him’ which is also circling around that plot. The mother remarrys and her new husband has a daughter about the same age as her son. Like any normal hormone raging boy, he develops a crush on her.
Cant help but think of my own situation.  i am currently about to have a child on my own. The inevitable will definitely happen where  myself and/or my babys father will move on. I will get an amazing man. Mature and responsible, confident enough to love me and my child.
However, what if he has a child of his own? What if they are close in age? What if they develop a crush on each other?? 😷

Then i begun telling myself, well, i just have to make sure he doesnt have any children. But is this fair to him? I already have a small selection of men to pick from and now one who wont have any strings attached??! Is it fair that i expect to be loved with my child but i cannot accept one who has one?

Well, being a parent as i learn each day is definitely riddles with many  dilemmas, questions and sacrifices.

Do you know of any step sibling couples? Are you in one?  Do you think it is normal for step siblings to find love? Share your thoughts.


I Love Netflix!!

If you keep your ear to the streets, then you know that Netflix is now in Kenya.

I am super excited about this, as I have always love Netflix shows. For example, Orange is the new Black, Archer and Blue Mountain State.  Next to HBO, I am always sure not to get disappointed with their productions. So when I hear that they had opened their site in Kenya, i thought it was awesome an  I had to see it for myself.

I was excited to learn that their prices werent so high as we have always expected with Americam TV. Their offers run from $5 to $9. I choose the $7 which is about Ksh. 1000 a month. Not too bad. I quickly sign up and begin watching.

I get so excited to see all the various shows. From Weeds, Narcos, Archer and new shows I didn’t even know about; Marco Polo, Beast of a Nation and Master if None. First thing I am watching is Narcos, even though the subtitles are exhausting, I have to find out about Pablo Escobar.

I have been using it for the past week. Here are some of the pros and cons of Netflix;


  • Latest shows
  • Money reaches the actual creators of the shows
  • Always good copies in HD
  • can watch on phone


  • Must have high speed internet, preferably WiFi
  • You will not find all the shows you expect

I cannot think of any other cons, can you? Tell me whatever they can be below.

So if you haven’t yet gotten Netflix, I recommend that you do, and quite pirating things!!

Top 10 Fashion Looks at the 2014 Emmy Awards

I had to catch up with the latest award ceremony everybody is talking about, the Emmy’s!! Well as usual I was keen to look at the fashion choices of most of the celebrities since well that is what being a celebrity is all about. We sit at home in our jammies as we watch you all glammed up having dinner in a beautiful hall. The Emmy’s are quite mature as compared to other awards (MTV) with little performances and big names. I liked it this year with Seth Meyers as the host. He brought along with him many of his SNL co-stars which made the event entertaining.

So here is the list of the top 10 noteworthy fashion looks on the Emmy Red carpet:

  1. Sophia Vergara

She did it again. This bombshell worked the runway and stage. She knows shes got it and this volumptuous lady stood on stage and looked like a white award. She looked amazing.












2. Julia Louis-Dreyfus

She may not have had the most skin-baring dress of the night (kudos, Lizzy Caplan). But Julia Louis-Dreyfus was extraordinary in a raspberry Carolina Herrera gown that showed off her shoulders — and how to look spectacular at 53.












3. Lena Dunham

Hmm.. where to begin. Lena we know you are fun and quirky but this dress is ridiculous. It seems she really does love to stand out as she also has some unusual tats. Her hair was the best thing in her look.












4. Laverne Cox

His sorry her first time to the Emmy’s and she looked amazing. The low cut dress showed all her assets although the broadness of the shoulders is unique. Not bad.












  1. Kaley Cuoco

This hot pink Monique Lhuillier floral dress is attention grabbing. I think the fit of the corset top could’ve been better but she looks good anyway. Love the short hair on her. Agree?












6. Claire Danes

I know I am behind but I have just gotten onto the Homeland bandwagon. This show is butt clenching, just how I like them. I therefore had to put this amazing actor on this list. Having missed the award, I felt she needed a win.










7. Halle Berry

Like seriously how old is this woman. I seriously believe she has the secret to everlasting youth. Halle looked stunning in this pink Elie Saab silk chiffon gown.












8. Kerry Washington

Did she just have a baby? Being an avid fan I am ready for the nest season of Scandal. When is it going to be out? Anyway, she looked good in this body hugging orange Prada. But don’t get too skinny Kerry, us African girls need some meat on their bones. And you are married to a Nigerian man, right?












9. Matthew Mcconaughey and Camila Alves

This sexy couple looked amazing. This twosome must have the steamiest sex and I can wait to see the children produced from this sexy union. You go guys, giving you about 2 more years together.












10. Viola Davis

I just loved the turquoise color of the dress against her dark chocolate skin. 10/10. However, we need the African natural hair back, the weaves are not doing it for her anymore.












Any comments or other people you would have liked to see on the list? Comment below.

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